Hundreds of thousands of spouses of Police Officers, Firefighters, and First Responders live in a constant state of “What if...” How do they get through each day and also protect their children from their own fears? They live in an inordinate amount of continual stress. They must be supportive, understanding and stoic. They must navigate how the world sees them and educate friends and family about safety matters. Vikki Downey has lived this as the wife of a Los Angeles Police Department poli