An essential roadmap to recovery for straight spouses in mixed orientation relationships. Experiences of 26 women affirm positive paths to wholeness after a mate comes out.When gays marry straights, they build a time bomb. In the chaos that follows a coming-out, the straight partner scrambles for understanding and balance. 

A unique adaptable recovery manual for use by individuals, therapists, students, and support groups. A self-directed path to long-term healing and future happiness.&