Meet Boonmee P. McElroy, LICSW, CLC Trauma-Transformed Coach | Licensed Therapist | Award-Winning Author For most of my life, I was known as the strong one—the person everyone turned to when things fell apart, the one who quietly carried the weight without expectation or recognition. On the surface, I had it all together: a respected career as a mental health leader, ultimately serving as Director of Counseling Services. I guided teams and supported people through their darkest moments.